Archive | December 2009

Color Me Sexy

Whatever color you decide to wear, don’t let it outshine your personality. People do choose to wear colors based upon how they feel in and out of the bedroom.

PINK

Looking pretty in pink shows a reluctance to mature in sexual matters. Women tend to tease, to promise more than they intend to deliver. Men who like pink are the philanderers and flirts. They are the type who will make three dates for the same evening and not keep one, preferring to pick up a woman in some bar instead.

ORANGE

Wearers of orange, lean toward sexual fantasies. Foreplay is as important as lovemaking. Female orange lovers are excellent erotic communicators and men who wear orange are sexually adventurous and bad boys.

YELLOW

People who wear yellow often have complex sex lives. The women are passive and choose men with strong personalities. Men who wear yellow rarely enjoy the art of lovemaking, consequently they prefer to indulge in quickies.

WHITE

These people are puritanical in nature; sex often seems unhealthy and unappealing to people who choose white as their primary color. Women will never make love in the daylight, but rather undress under the covers. Men who wear white are inhibited about their bodies and will rarely try new sexual things.

Dr Ava’s Quickies – Tell Your Lover They Make A Difference in Your Life

Do you know how to let your lover know that he/she is making a difference in your life?

TO DO: Make a personalized video for your lover to watch of you expressing all the things you love about him/her physically, mentally, emotionally, sexually and even spiritually.  You can share your feelings by describing the best day you spent together or reveal some of the fantasies you would like to do with your lover in the future.

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How Sexy are You?

You can tell how sexy someone is by the color they wear. Here are some sexual personality definitions for you to ponder as you choose what to wear for New Year’s Eve.

GREEN

Green wearers have a fresh and innocent approach to sex. Women who love green can make love like virgins or whores depending on what their lover wants and needs. Men are always charming and gentle but not necessarily passionate. If chosen as a mate, one will never need to worry about cheating.

BROWN

Brown lovers tend to be warm and deep, sensitive to the needs and desires of their partners. Sex is a 24 hour a day thing, where you can’t say, “I love you” often enough. Women like to snuggle by the fire, walk in the rain or catch snowflakes on their tongue. Men need lots of time and privacy to make love but their emotions are fragile and one harsh word could end the relationship.

PURPLE

Lovers of purple frequently consider themselves to be too sophisticated for a fun romp in the sack or dirty sweaty sex. Women hate to mess up their hair or smudge their lipstick.  Men are business-like in their approach to lovemaking. In both sexes, purple partners are more concerned with their own fulfillment than their partners sexual satisfaction.

More colors coming your way tomorrow…

Sexual Styles Revealed By Colors you Wear

Did you know the color someone wears can reflects their sexual preferences? Here are some sexual definitions of the colors that people wear, so choose your color carefully.

RED

A Tiger in the bedroom easily aroused and enjoys sex in every way imaginable. Lovers of red tend to be the initiator of love and sex and once the sexual spark is ignited; it may take hours to extinguish.

BLACK

These people tend to prefer kinky sex. Many are into spanking or bondage and love the power they have over their lovers. When you put on a pair of black leather pants or boots, don’t you automatically feel wilder?

GRAY

People who are indecisive prefer Gray. They can’t get excited about anything, including color so they choose a noncommittal shade. Men who wear gray look at sex as a way of relieving tension and women don’t make love, they have sex to either procreate or accommodate their partner.

BLUE

If blue is your favorite color, you are a wonderful sex partner, affectionate and sensitive to your partner’s needs. You consider lovemaking a fine art. Men who wear blue are like concert pianists delicately ravaging their partner and women particularly enjoy foreplay and the aftermath of lovemaking.

MORE SEXUAL STYLES REVEALED BY COLORS TO COME…

Secrets to an Intimate Relationship

What are the secrets to an intimate relationship? This is one of the most common questions I’m asked, so here are the five ingredients that are all necessary if you want to have a consistently successful intimate relationship.

Friendship

Friendship means being able to say anything to your partner because you have that ease of “best buddies.”    Best friends never take advantage of each other; they are there to help one another.  Any good partnership includes the same love you have for a best friend.

Trust

You cannot truly be connected to someone you cannot trust. That warm, mellow feeling we experience when we trust each other is a large part of true love.  Peace-of-mind in a relationship is vital to its stamina.  And trust, like anything worthwhile, is something we earn over time, gradually.

Respect

When it comes to love, if you respect your partner just the way he or she is when you first meet without wanting them to change, then that’s a good sign that love can prevail.  Whether respect can grow and blossom will determine the depth of your love.

Passion

That all-consuming feeling of pure lust, euphoric, overwhelming, distracting, beautiful thing we call passion can be spontaneous or it can come on gradually too.  Keep passion alive by kissing everyday to keep the juices flowing, recreating passionate memories and trying new and exciting activities together.

Communication

Communication is like that magic spice that brings out the flavor of all the other ingredients. Not only does good communication enrich your partnership, it takes a big chunk out of everyday stress. Compliment your partner every day with physical and appreciative compliments; let him or her know that they are making a difference to your life and share your wants and needs because nobody can read your mind, not even the one you love!

Top New Year’s Resolutions

Focus your New Year’s resolutions on breaking your bad habits. Here are the top ten bad habits with some action steps to help you resolve them.

1. Cheating – don’t go to tempting places or get into tempting situations.

2. Smoking – ration yourself to smoke one less every day until you give it up.

3. Drinking – just drink on weekends or special occasions.

4. Drugs – get help from a support group.

5. Food – eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a pauper.

6. Gambling – give the money to charity instead.

7. Abuse – take time out before you say or do something you’ll regret.

8. Laziness – make a list of productive things to do and check them off daily.

9. Clutter – Organize one room at a time.

10. Selfishness – help others by volunteering your time, donating money or personal items to people who have less than you.

What is your bad habit and what is one action step you can take to resolve it?

Celebrity patterns of domestic violence

Charlie Sheen has been accused of domestic violence in the past, in 1997 the actor was convicted of physically abusing a former girlfriend.

Chris Brown physically battered his girlfriend Rihanna, Mike Tyson, beat and raped his wife, Robin Givens. Denver Broncos football player Dwayne Carswell was arrested for assaulting and biting his girlfriend, singer, James Brown was arrested for assaulting his wife and don’t even get me started on O.J. Simpson who abused his wife Nicole until her life ended in tragedy.

I’m tired of hearing about celebrities who have been accused of domestic violence who get sentenced to community service. Their careers may get a sudden jolt of negative publicity, but then they are forgiven by Hollywood because their name and notoriety brings in even more revenue.

This kind of media disempowers victims and gives abusers more power to keep on repeating the patterns of physical, mental, emotional and sexual abuse. If celebrities can get away with it, then what kind of message is that sending to the rest of mankind?

Until the punishment fits the crime, statistics will continue to rise and are already showing that up to 6 million women are victims of domestic violence each year.

If you know someone who is being abused by their partner, it is your duty to help them by reporting the abuse to the authorities.

Let’s put a stop to domestic violence!

Celebrity Arrested for Domestic Violence

Actor Charlie Sheen was arrested this Xmas morning and allegedly charged with domestic violence against his wife Brooke Allen.

Married to his third wife in 2008, Charlie and Brooke are the parents of twin baby boys.  So why on earth would he hurt his wife, the mother of his children? Here are five possible reasons:

  1. Was it a power struggle where he needed to prove that he was the powerful head of the household?
  2. Was it about sex where he believed that he was entitled to sex from her when he wanted it?
  3. Was it a provocation where he believed that it was all her fault?
  4. Was it alcohol or stress induced?
  5. Was it a fit of anger and loss of control?

Whatever the excuse, domestic violence is always about gaining and maintaining control and it is usually a repetitive pattern that only gets worse.

My suggestion is always to get out of an abusive or violent relationship as soon as you get the first sign. Don’t kid yourself that things will get better.

Abusers prey on their victims fear and helplessness, but the risks of staying in an abusive relationship are way too great, so run for your life.

Ravage Your Lover

Do you know how to spark the desire by
ravaging your lover?

Offer to help your lover clear out their underwear drawer
and instead of tossing out old undies, tear them off your lover…with their permission!

If the material is too thick, cut them in strategic places so that
they can be torn more easily. The visual foreplay is one that
you won’t soon forget.

Dr Ava’s Quickies – Ravage Your Lover

Do you know how to spark the desire by ravaging your lover?

TO DO: Offer to help your lover clear out their underwear drawer and instead of tossing out old undies, tear them off your lover adoringly ravages him/her. If the material is too thick, cut them in strategic places so that they can be torn more easily. The visual foreplay is one that you won’t soon forget.

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