Archive | September 2011

Make Out Time

Remember when you first started dating and how often you used to Make Out? Well whether you are married or dating, there should always be time to Make Out with your lover to maintain the chemistry you had when you first met. It can be on a weekend afternoon before the evening’s activities or anytime where Making Out is going to be a priority without distractions. Can you invest one hour a week in your relationship for a fun Make Out session? Write it in your calendar if necessary and make an appointment because the more time you invest in your relationship, the more you’ll get in return.

Here are 20 Make Out suggestions to help you get started:

1. Sugary caresses

2. Syrupy love bites served gently

3. Sweet body pressing

4. Warm blows of breath

5. Fabulous French kissing

6. Creamy cuddles

7. Saucy phone-sex

8. Luscious body massage

9. Naughty videos

10. Scrumptious body licking

11. Spicy striptease

12. Playful power play with blindfolds & restraints

13. Mouth-watering mutual masturbation

14. Tasty cleavage fornication

15. Juicy oral delights

16. Steamy sex with vibrators and other adult toys

17. Delicious penetration

18. Wet and wild bathing

19. Tantalizing tickling

20. Erotic ice-play

Make a commitment to start Making Out with your lover, take turns initiating Make Out sessions and your love life will be even more fun, romantic, passionate and erotic.

10 Steps to Sex After Surgery

The distress caused by surgery can lead to a vicious cycle because when you are in pain and emotionally exhausted, your mental state mirrors your physical condition and it’s no wonder that you feel depressed, and ask “why me? I don’t deserve this.” But here’s an opportunity to learn and share what you’ve learned with others. Educate and help others who have the same or similar condition. Try to use humor as a tool so that people can see and hear you are handling your illness. After I had brain surgery I told people, “Well, I finally had my head examined” and they became more comfortable around me.

The good news is that sex after surgery can be just as satisfying as it was beforehand, if not even better. That’s right, with adversity comes the opportunity to bond and enhance your relationship. But you need to find the courage to communicate your wants, needs and fears to your partner and the first step is to ask yourself some thought provoking questions such as:

  • Do I feel like being intimate with my partner?
  • Do I have the energy to make love to my partner?
  • Do I want to change something about the way we used to have sex?

Communication is key to improving the whole person inside and out. Lack of communication is like having a car without fuel. You still have a car but it’s not going anywhere. Once you know the answer to your own questions, let your partner know that you need to have an important talk with them about your sex life. They will be all ears in anticipation of what you have to say so be sure to let them know that they are still desirable and that what you are going through is temporary. If in doubt, consult your surgeon to find out when it’s safe to have sexual activity.

For your own mental, emotional and sexual recovery, follow these 10 steps:

1.    Love your body and thank it for getting you through the treatment.

2.    Reward yourself by doing the things that give you the most pleasure.

3.    Share all the positive things in your life with loved ones.

4.    Maintain intimacy by hugging, kissing and touching each other.

5.    Express your appreciation to friends, family and loved ones.

6.    Focus on your strengths rather than your weaknesses.

7.    Stay socially and physically active regularly.

8.    Apologies for any hurts you may have caused loved ones.

9.    Forgive others for hurting you and forgive yourself for allowing them.

10.Be patient, relax, meditate and let time do the healing.

Your Personal Sex Teacher

Back to school can be fun if we’re talking about a school for adults that teaches subject on love and sex. Just imagine being able to learn about all those naughty things your parents never talked about such as masturbation, oral sex, intercourse and anal sex. Of course you can’t blame them, as they were probably afraid because they didn’t know all the facts. Besides, it’s never too late to re-parent yourself with the love, attention and the knowledge you wish you had. Let me be your personal sex teacher and guide you through a higher education on love, relationships and human sexuality.

That’s why I launched Loveology University, an online College of Sensual Knowledge. It’s one of my dreams come true because I believe we teach what we need to learn the most. At least that’s true in my case.

I was raised in a repressed abusive environment without any positive life or love lessons from parents or peers. I was told that sex was evil, my body was dirty and that I was basically worthless. Consequently, I grew up a very confused 
teenager and easily taken advantage of, especially by men. After many unhealthy relationships, I hit rock bottom before I realized my mission was to find out as much as I could about love, relationships and sex and dedicate my life to helping others overcome guilt, shame and confusion.

I found the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco and discovered that they gave Degrees in Sex Education, Sexology and Sex Therapy and I enrolled in one of their Doctorate programs. Since getting my Degrees, I continued to pursue more qualifications as a Certified Hypnotherapist, Continuing Education Provider for the Board of Behavioral Sciences and Board of Nursing, but I am most proud of my online school where I share the vast knowledge I have accumulated in the last 20 years and offer you a wealth of information that you may otherwise not have access to. Everyone should be able to get accurate and positive information on human sexuality.

Right now I’m offering a Back to School Special Offer with 50% off all of the programs and courses at www.Loveologyuniversity.com so I hope that you will take this opportunity to learn something new so that you can find love, rekindle passion and have the best sex of your life. I believe that love is the meaning of life and sex keeps it on course.

Multiple Orgasm Games

  Here’s your chance to combine multiple areas for orgasmic bliss that will get your lover hotter than ever before. Let the sex games begin.

Her Primal Zones

Send her to another world by combining kissing, nipple play, and clitoral touches. She’ll be overcome with pleasure, as each of these areas are primary erogenous zones for a woman. Have a blindfolded taste contest where she gets to try 5 different samples of sweets. If she can correctly guess 3 out of 5, she wins this tasty TriGasm. If she loses, she makes dinner naked.

His Nips and Bits

Most people don’t realize that a guy’s nipples can be just as sensitive as a woman’s, even to the point of orgasm. Combine his nips with penile play and some penetrative prostate touch. Challenge him to a movie trivia game. Each of you comes up with 4 famous movie scenes with famous quotes. Place them in a bag and choose randomly. Pick 2 and act them out together. The person who misfires and isn’t able to act out the scene loses. If he wins, he gets his XXX.

Her Trifecta

Place your bet on stimulating her clitoris, G-spot, and anus simultaneously and you’ll be a winner.  Best done in doggy style with one finger on or in her anus while penetrating her vagina deeply to stimulate her G-spot, encourage her to play with her clitoris. If she has to earn the Trifecta, have an egg toss outside and after each catch, the person who caught the egg takes a step backwards. Continue on until someone drops the egg. If she loses, she not only loses her Trifecta, but she has to clean up the egg mess too.

His Triple Shot

Combine giving him oral sex while massaging his scrotum with one hand and playing with his anus with the other hand. Play 15 hands of blackjack with him being the dealer and staying on 17. The house odds are on him to win and receive this delicious combination. If he loses, he snoozes.

Now create some orgasmic games of your own and be sure to share them with me.

Dr. Ava