Diamond Vibrators for your Valentine

Diamonds are a girl’s best friend with benefits, so sweep your lover off her feet by giving her a stylish waterproof vibrator with diamonds on Valentine’s Day. Evolved’s Diamond Edition Vibrators are trimmed with rhinestones and surefire way to add sparkle to your sex life. Choose the Lustre from this collection to take advantage of the curved shape – an added gem for G-spot stimulation! Treat her like a Princess by giving her the Evolved Diamond Princess Vibrator for ecstasy-inducing foreplay or leave it with her for those special “alone time” orgasms or give her the elegant Black Diamond with crystals Vibrator as the perfect precious gift for under $30.00.

Available at: http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/clit-vibrators/sp-evolved-diamond-princess-vibrator-15260.aspx

If your budget is higher and you want to give her a scintillating vibrator that will last forever, The Little Platinum Eternity Vibrator with 28 diamonds for $3,250.00 by Jimmyjane may be a memorable Valentines gift that will leave her breathless. It’s elegant, perfectly discreet – and the quietest vibrator available. Heat in warm water to soothe, or chill it in the fridge for a treat on a warm summer day. Make it rechargeable with an eco-friendly, rechargeable battery  and see this vibrator in 24k gold. Available at: http://www.jimmyjane.com/shop/littleplatinumeternity-p-61.html

The most extravagant luxury sex toy is a white gold dildo that was created by a Paris jeweler for the woman who has everything! It is available in various sizes and comes apart to release the ring studded with 117 diamonds, which can be worn separately. Jean-Francois Tokars, manager at Maison Victor in the city’s exclusive Place Vendome square, said: “It was designed for rich people who want to declare their love in a special way.” So, if you have $60,000 to spend on a diamond-encrusted sex toy, you can afford to go to Paris to purchase it as it is not available online.

Year of the Sexy Dragon

It’s no surprise that dragons are everywhere, since this is the year of the dragon and it’s filled with good fortune, according to the Chinese Zodiac. You’ll find dragons on clothing, jewelry, candles, statues, furniture, lamps, swords, goblets, and even sex toys. So, make it your good fortune to discover some sexy ways to celebrate the Chinese New Year and your sexual health at the same time with some of these fun sex toys and positions.

The best dragon sex toys I found by far are by Bad-Dragon.com, which has quickly grown to become the most popular fantasy adult toy manufacturer in the world. With an array of beautifully molded dragon dildos, dragon vagina and dragon tongue, they have received worldwide recognition for its attention to detail, high quality products, and exotic designs, which can be customized for you the consumer.

Oral Delights – The Dragon Tongue by Bad-Dragon

Imagine a dragon’s tongue with it’s sleek curves and soft, pliable ridges gently exploring your most intimate parts, squirming as much as the tongue it is modeled after, measuring nine usable inching long and tapering from half an inch to three inches wide, the dragon’s tongue is suited to new and advanced users alike. http://goo.gl/Lb4Hu

For Men, Enter The Dragon – Penis Sleeve by Blush Novelties

Slip this sleeve over your tool for an unforgettable experience. The head and body of the dragon is meticulously hand sculpted. Ticklers on the belly of the dragon enhance sensations for your partner. Use the strap to cinch your scrotum to aid in delaying ejaculation. The strong stretchy material is skin safe and phthalates free. One size fits most. http://goo.gl/fQDkk

For Ladies, The Magic Dragon – Clitoral Tickler by Pipedream

Hold this little dragon against the clitoris, choose the amount of vibration and get ready to enter magic kingdom of sexual delight! It’s powerful yet quiet and has a unique design for endless array of erotic pleasures. Use it on yourself or with a lover and expand your sexual horizons. http://goo.gl/2gGzy

For a BiGasm – Sophia’s Magical Dragon Vibrator by California Exotics

A powerful slim line design with four rows of reverse rotating metal beads and a magical dragon will give you the ride of your life. Sophia’s Magical Dragon has adjustable speeds, waterproof design, and stimulating functions. Press the arrow keys on the LED-lit control pad and enjoy three speeds of vibration in the dragon-shaped clitoral stimulator, and three speeds of whirling beads in the center of the shaft for internal and external pleasure simultaneously. http://goo.gl/iHqpm

For Any Erogenous Zone – Pleasure Dragon Vibrator by Ailv

This cute little dragon vibe has long ears to wrap around the clitoris and will deliver vibration to both of its sides. The control pack allows adjusting the speed remotely from gentle to very powerful. The bullet also can be used alone on any erogenous zone from nipples to anus. http://goo.gl/c43Z9

For Couples – The Dragon Sex Position

If sex toys are not your game, try a new sex position that was published in Cosmo and goes like this: Lie on your stomach with your arms raised above your head. With a pillow or two placed under your pubic bone, spread your legs slightly. Have your partner stretch his body over your and enter you, mimicking the position that you’re in. Instead of fast from-behind thrusting, this steamy stance requires a circular, swirling motion. Read more: The Dragon Sex Position – Cosmopolitan

May this year of the dragon make all your wishes come true, including your sexy ones.

The Art of Pleasure

We are all searching for pleasure to avoid pain. We want to prolong pleasure so that it is not just a momentary feeling that comes from external gratification. Here are ten ways to tap into the art of pleasure and experience positive energy from inner and outer sources.

1. Identify all that gives you pleasure and prioritize a list of pleasures. How many pleasures do you have?

2. Give yourself permission to surrender to selected pleasures every single day. What is your chosen pleasure today?

3. Take responsibility for your own pleasure, don’t wait for someone to give it to you. What pleasure can you give yourself?

4. Love and accept the way you look, think and feel. What compliments and rewards are you going to give yourself?

5. Get into a juicy frame of mind through all of your senses. How are you going to heighten each of your senses?

6. Unleash your pleasure power: 50% via body language, 40% via sound, and 10% via action. How do you want to be perceived? Conceive it, believe it and you will achieve it!

7. Set emotional, physical and sexual boundaries that establishes your comfort zone. Write down your limits and deal breakers. Expand the boundaries that you want to explore.

8. Ignite your passions to light your partners fire. When you are turned on, your partner will get even more aroused.

9. Turn your lover into putty in your hands. Please your lover by pleasing yourself at the same time.

10. Empower yourself and you can handle anything! Tap into a positive pleasure experience through all your senses and you will look confident and powerful!

Celebrity Break-Up Lessons

Why do celebrity couples get married to each other when the odds are stacked up against them? From power struggles to jealousy, inflated egos to insecure hang-ups, many celebrity marriages do not have happy endings like a Hallmark movie. Here are four valuable lessons we can learn from some notable Hollywood divorces.

1. Clashing Egos

Certainly when a talented Actress wins an Oscar for Best Actress, her husband had better be damn secure if he is not in the limelight. Sandra Bullock, Hilary Swank, Reese Witherspoon and Kate Winslet all got divorced after winning the acclaimed award. None of these women should be married to another celebrity who is insecure, jealous, egotistical, competitive and feels entitled to cheat when he is unsatisfied in their relationship. They need a proud, supportive, successful, sympathetic partner with high esteem who they respect.

2. Distance Detachment

Long distance relationships don’t make for successful marriages, especially when the celebrity’s sex life is unfulfilled. There is always ample temptation to cheat and when horny, even celebs don’t think about the disastrous consequences. Actress Demi Moor and Actor Ashton Kutcher’s marriage failed when he fell prey to infidelity, even though they dated for two years before they got married. Many people blame the 16-year age difference, but I think the worship of their mutual celebrity impacted the destruction of their relationship.

3. Opposites Don’t Last

Opposites may attract initially, but they don’t always make for a long lasting relationship, especially in the case of British Actor Russell Brand and American pop star, Katy Perry who were only married for 14-months.  He was a recovered hard partying heroin and sex addict and she was an all American daughter of an ultra religious upbringing by Evangelists Church minsters.  It didn’t take long before they both realized they had totally different lifestyles with different taste in different things. They didn’t even like each others friends and they didn’t want to live in the same country. Perhaps they should have discussed their differences before they wed.

4. Power Struggles

A recipe for an unhappy marriage is when one successful celebrity tries to dominate the other without their approval. This may be evident in the relationship between Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony, an equally hot and talented couple that looked like the perfect family with their twins. Everyone was rooting for their marriage to work, but these two strong personalities may have found the constant struggle for power impacting their love life and even the raising of their children. Now they are competing as they have both moved on with younger lovers.

Watch me talk about J. Lo and Marc’s power struggle on Access Hollywood.
http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/DrAvaPages/nbc-accesshollywood-20120105.html