Celebrate Orgasms
National Orgasm Day is coming up on July 31st and millions of people will be celebrating the benefits of having as many euphoric, mind blowing, earth shattering, body melting orgasms as they can.
Orgasms are great for your health as they release sex hormones and endorphins that stimulate the body’s vital organs and glands. So take this opportunity to relieve all your stresses and give yourself permission to celebrate one of life’s natural highs.
If you don’t have a lover, make love to yourself by arousing any one of your erogenous zones like the penis, prostate, testicles, clitoris, G-spot, anus or nipples. Use some personal lubricant such as System JO for added sensuality and make love to your inner lover by exploring your body inside and out.
Sex toys can increase your orgasmic intensity, so reward yourself with the Evolved Waterproof Wonder designed to find the G-spot or prostate. If you haven’t found it yet, then there’s no better time than National Orgasm Day.
For couples who want to reach simultaneous orgasms, the We-Vibe is the award winning sex toy that can be worn by the woman during lovemaking. Just charge it up in advance and enjoy the vibrations together until you both reach the big O!
If you want to discover more ways to reach an orgasm, take the Certified Course on Orgasm and become a Sexpert at http://www.LoveologyUniversity.com
Please your Lover with the Goddess Waterfall
Here’s a quickie that will please your lover orally. Starting very gently, run the tip of your tongue with varying degrees of firmness like running water up and down one side of her labia. Then use your tongue in tapping motions all the way down the other side like the pitter-patter of mist drops in a waterfall and she will feel like a Goddess.
Love Hurts
When you expose your feeling to someone who doesn’t love you back the way you want, love hurts and it sucks. But that doesn’t mean you have to give up having great sex, especially if you can separate love from sex. Think of them as light and dark chocolate, while one has more intense flavor than the other they both taste good together or apart.
In the game of love and sex, you risk getting hurt when you reveal your emotional and sexual vulnerabilities. But if you don’t risk getting hurt, you won’t learn how to give and receive true love or sexual intimacy. So here are some steps to help you fall in love and have great sex.
Start by treating yourself as if you are madly in love with you. That means valuing and pleasuring yourself, rewarding and accepting yourself, validating and loving yourself unconditionally. Then losing love won’t hurt as much and you can learn to grow from all of your experiences.
Next, be willing to let someone go when the bad outweighs the good. In other words, if you’re not getting the attention, appreciation, respect or sexual satisfaction that you need to make you happy, it’s time to say “Bye Bye.”
On the other hand, if you have great sexual chemistry with someone who knows how to turn you on, but doesn’t fulfill your emotional needs, don’t deprive yourself of mind-blowing orgasms. There’s no rule that says you have to be in love to have great sex or that having great sex will destroy the possibility of having true love.
The greatest irony of having sex without love or love without sex is that most people focus on what is missing as opposed to holding on to what they have. Love won’t hurt when your heart is filled with gratitude and you feel complete as a person with or without a partner.
Sex Toy Convention
I spent the last three days at The Show and Tell Adult Novelties Expo where I saw the latest in innovative love products, toys and videos. I’ve never seen so many varieties of vibrators that ranged in styles, materials, functions and colors. It was a Sexologist’s dream come true.
Here I am at the Evolved booth showing off their colorful Roulette Line of vibrators, which I like to refer to as the Rolls Royce of sex toys. Below is System JO displaying their high standard lubes, pheromones, massage glides and the best body shaving creams on the market.
Other memorable products included The We-Vibe couples vibrator and winner of the ETO award for best adult product 2010 and Hustler’s new line of sex toys for guys and girls, which are really cute and include the vibrating Gossip ring.
The most bizarre toys were designed by Topco and included a replica of a rectal prolapse, a medical condition where the walls of the rectum protrude through the anus and become visible outside the body.
There was something for everyone and I can’t wait to try out my samples.
Boost Your Sexual Confidence
Do you wish you could read your lovers mind, especially during sex? Or will your lover to shower you with compliments to help boost your sexual confidence in bed? Then you wouldn’t be compelled to fill your mind with secret insecurities about being too fat, too skinny, too small, too old, too imperfect or sexually incompatible.
Asking questions you secretly want to ask your lover in order to boost your own sexual confidence may backfire if they don’t say what you want to hear. So don’t ask “What were you thinking about when you were having an orgasm?” because they may not say that they were thinking about you.
If you want to boost your sexual confidence, let your lover know how much you love your body by saying, “I love my pussy, isn’t she pretty?” Tell your lover that you get really turned on by receiving oral sex and they are more likely to do it.
Don’t be shy about applying System JO lube for a smoother, silkier sexual intercourse experience. If you need a little help reaching orgasm, grab that Croupier vibrator and show your lover how to find and stimulate your G-spot or tell your lover to insert the Bet on Black vibrator into your anus for more intensity. In other words, take responsibility for your own pleasure and be bold because there’s nothing hotter than a confident lover who knows what they want.
If you want to boost your lover’s sexual confidence, compliment their performance, tell them how good they look, taste, feel and smell. It’s okay to exaggerate during sex, so don’t think of it as breaking one of the 10 commandments. Besides, if you’re that hung up on religious guilt, you’re already a sinner anyway for lusting and having sex.
As a fallen Catholic, I can tell you that sex is one of the most precious gifts you can give someone who is worthy of it and that includes yourself. Masturbation helps to build your sexual confidence and it’s good for your health. Having sex with someone you love is the best prescription for good health. And a hook-up with safer-sex practices is natural as long as you both want to do it, it feels good and nobody gets hurt.
Sex Toy for Beginners
The perfect introductory sex toy is Evolved’s Waterproof Promise Finger Ring and Waterproof Engagement Finger Ring as they are multifunctional, vibrating, pulsating with five powerful function massagers for you to choose from to stimulate your sensual and sexual needs. You can use it on any erogenous zone including the nipples, clitoris, labia, testicles, anus or any other hot spot you want to feel vibrated. Batteries are included and they are just a fingertip away.
Dr. Ava Cadell 