Surefire Way to Orgasm

It’s no secret that an orgasm starts between the ears and then travels between the legs, so begin by thinking your way to orgasm.

An erotic fantasy will do the trick for most, but bathing in a warm bath or adding spurting water from a shower head directly on your hot spots can take you to the point of no return and result in some squeaky clean fun at the same time.

If you enjoy having a speedy orgasm, looking at a porn video or magazine can work like magic in less time than it takes to boil a soft boiled egg, especially for men.

Finally, for tired moms I suggest some kind of escape where you can enter a world of fantasy rather than reality. Believe it or not, watching soft or hardcore porn is therapeutic and sexually arousing to women after a long
arduous day too.

Check out the Certified Course on Pornography at www.LoveologyUniversity.com and you might discover a new surefire way to orgasm or at the very least, you’ll learn how to have sex like a porn star.

Are You Too Sexy?

What is too sexy?

The definition of sexy varies, but I think most of you would agree that there are some common qualities in a “sexy” person including confidence, playfulness,  sense of humor, intelligence, compassion, generosity, happiness, talent and lets not forget power.

What images turn you on? The eyes? Hair color? Lips? Tattoos? Rock hard abs? Bubble butt, Big breasts? A little extra meat on the bones? Or really skinny? What is sexy to YOU?

When it comes to image, you don’t have to be God’s gift to the human race, but you do have to have a high self-image.  Someone who is sexy needs to feel confident, believe in what they are doing and have a great Attitude with a positive outlook on life.

Are you intimidated by a girl or guy who is too hot? If so what are you afraid of? Feeling inadequate when you are with them or being jealous when they get all the attention?

Are you so hot that people are afraid to approach you for fear of rejection?

Can being that hot be a gift or a curse?

Being too sexy can be hazardous to your career…. Harvard librarian Desiree Goodwin, who holds two advanced degrees from Cornell University, Claimed that she was passed over for promotion 16 times because of her physical attractiveness.  Goodwin claimed the jobs she sought were given to women with less experience and education and that a supervisor told her she was perceived as a “pretty girl” who wore “sexy outfits.”

Meanwhile in Italy,  Caterina Bonci, a teacher, said she was fired from her job at a state-run school for being too sexy.  How sad is it that if you flaunt your figure in a professional setting, colleagues and clients may question your judgment or make unflattering assumptions about your character.

I say, if you’ve got it flaunt it! More power to you! It hasn’t hurt sexy Paris Hilton, Pamela Anderson or Kim Kardashian. Sexy guys like Gilles Marini and Fabio Cannavaro can keep on taking it off for me because I say, “You can never be too sexy.”

Orgasm and Ejaculation

Although orgasm and ejaculation are two separate functions they usually occur at the same time. The most noticeable change in the penis during orgasm is the ejaculation of semen. In order to experience multiple orgasms you need to separate them. So have you ever wondered what it would be like if you could hear a conversation between Orgasm and Ejaculation? It might go something like this:

Orgasm: I’m breaking up with you, Ejaculation. I need some space.

Ejaculation: But Orgasm, we’re made for each other!

Orgasm: There you go, cutting me off again, Ejaculation.

Ejaculation: But just being around you gets me so excited. I can’t help it!

Orgasm: Take it easy Ejaculation. You don’t want to explode. You’re always doing that and that’s the problem.  I haven’t even begun to express my feelings and bam!

Ejaculation: Doesn’t it feel good when I explode?

Orgasm: Sure, it feels fine. But it’d feels SO much better if you’d give me some space to express myself once in a while.

Ejaculation (being good) I’m listening…

Orgasm: You think you and I are the same, but we’re not.

Ejaculation: (surprised) we’re not? Don’t we come together? Aren’t we ‘one’ when it comes right down to it?

Orgasm: No we’re not. First off, I happen before you.

Ejaculation: (defensive) No you don’t. We come together.

Orgasm: See? You don’t know the first thing about me.  If you’d pay attention once in a while you’d know that men feel me before they feel you.

Ejaculation: They do?

Orgasm: And they’d feel me a heck of a lot more if you wouldn’t come crashing in on the party so darn soon.

If you want to learn how to experience multiple orgasms for men by separating orgasm from ejaculation, come back for more conversations between Orgasm and Ejaculation.

Sensuality with Dr. Ava at WeTalkSex.com

This week I’m talking about Sensuality on my radio show SEX DRIVE and look forward to taking your calls at 1-877-711-5611. You can ask me anything and no subject is off limits or taboo but if you just want to listen, go to http://www.WeTalkSex.com and find out how you can become a more sensual person and add more sensuality to your relationship.