Scents That Boost Your Sex Drive

You can rev up your sex drive with the help of certain sexy scents such as the aroma of cinnamon, popcorn, pumpkin pie or doughnuts for your man.

Women get turned on by the smell of melon, chocolate, oranges and fresh bread. So, prepare some of these aphrodisiacs before you make love to enhance your sexual experience. There is scientific evidence that they can increase blood flow to the sexual organs.

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Romance Awareness

Since this is Romance Awareness month I’ve created the Twelve Cs to help you create more romance in your life. Creative Romance doesn’t come naturally to everyone, however everyone is capable of being romantic with a little coaching. Creative Romance is having options and trying new things that will add more spice to your love life. Many people think that you fall in love and then the relationship just takes care of itself, but NO, you have to keep on investing time and creativity to nurture a relationship if you want it to grow. Your mission if you choose to accept it is to find a way to incorporate the 12 Cs into your romantic relationship. These are the necessary ingredients for a consistently successful relationship.

1. Communication

2. Curiosity

3. Collaboration

4. Creativity

5. Courage

6. Consideration

7. Celebration

8. Contentment

9. Chemistry

10. Commitment

11. Contribution

12. Copulation

I’d love to hear how you were able to incorporate them into  your relationship and how your partner responded.

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Please Your Lover with Power Play

One of the latest growing trends in sex is Power Play. Students, secretaries, customer service reps, maybe even your relatives or your boss could be Masters, Mistresses and or Slaves behind closed doors.

I think everyone is into Power Play on some level. Guys, when you give your lover a slap on the butt and she asks you to do it harder, that’s S & M. And, ladies, when you’re climaxing and you dig your fingernails into his back, that’s S & M too. Do you enjoy that extra nipple stimulation, so rough that it has to hurt just a little to feel good? Well, if so then that’s S & M again. How about when he tells you all those nasty things he wants to do to you? And don’t you feel a little humiliated when he calls you a dirty whore or a slut during sex? That’s B & D. When you blindfold your lover and tease him or her with sexual anticipation, it’s all a form of B & D.

If you’ve ever been in any of these common situations, then you are into some form of Power Play and you may be a perfect candidate to expand your sexual horizons.

Household items lend themselves to spontaneity among beginners. Take clothespins for instance, they’re not just for the laundry, but highly effective for clamping nipples, testicles, the clitoris and stretching the labia.

A spatula can make for a great paddle and scarves or necktie’s can also be used to tie up or be tied down with. But a word of caution should be mentioned here, especially as these kinds of activities can get out of hand, so safe code words are very important. Use the words Red, Yellow and Green. The reason for this is, when fantasies are being acted out, the slave will often say ‘Stop’ when she/he really means ‘Go’. By using code words that mean the same thing – like Red for Stop, Yellow for Slow Down or Green for Go, both Master and Slave can reach the same understanding without disturbing the fantasy.

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Please Your Lover with an EarGasm

Begin by licking your lover’s ear lobes, followed by gentle kisses and delicate nibbles all around the erogenous ears.  Then purse your lips as you slowly blow your cool breath up and down from the top of the ear to the bottom. Now open your mouth and press your lips against your lover’s ear as you blow your warm breath into each ear sensually. Be aware of your lover’s reaction and watch their body language. Some people love eargasms while others may not.

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Surefire Way to Orgasm

It’s no secret that an orgasm starts between the ears and then travels between the legs, so begin by thinking your way to orgasm.

An erotic fantasy will do the trick for most, but bathing in a warm bath or adding spurting water from a shower head directly on your hot spots can take you to the point of no return and result in some squeaky clean fun at the same time.

If you enjoy having a speedy orgasm, looking at a porn video or magazine can work like magic in less time than it takes to boil a soft boiled egg, especially for men.

Finally, for tired moms I suggest some kind of escape where you can enter a world of fantasy rather than reality. Believe it or not, watching soft or hardcore porn is therapeutic and sexually arousing to women after a long
arduous day too.

Check out the Certified Course on Pornography at www.LoveologyUniversity.com and you might discover a new surefire way to orgasm or at the very least, you’ll learn how to have sex like a porn star.

Top Sex Activities

Do you know how to share your favorite sexual
activities with your partner?

Make a list of 10 sexual activities, then prioritize them in order of arousal and
show the list to your lover.

For example:deep passionate kissing, receiving oral sex until you orgasm, mutual masturbation, using your Bottle Rocket vibrator, having a quickie in the car, role-playing Master and Slave, watching lesbian porn, missionary position in front of the fireplace, 69 in bed, anal sex.

If you don’t already know what turns you on, you won’t be able to communicate your needs, wants and desires to your lover.

Aural Sex in August

August is Audio Appreciation Month and I don’t know a better way to celebrate than with aural sex. Before you can effectively talk erotically, it’s a good idea to write down what you want to say. Truly effective words must show what you are writing about and you do this by touching all the senses with your words. Here are some words you can incorporate into your erotic talk that will stir your lover’s senses.

Hear – Moaning, deep breathing, screaming, panting, sighing, heart pounding, music, birds chirping, rustling in the sheets, squeaking bed, banging head board, skin slapping, laughing, giggling, growling, howling, purring, sniffling, weeping, bed springs, peace and quiet, fan, furnace, wood crackling, vibrator, curtains blowing, spanking, lover’s voice, running water.

Taste – Alcohol, peanut butter, salt, honey, chocolate, mint, flavored body oil, flavored lube, vanilla, syrup, skin, sweat, dinner, whipped cream, latex, candy, dildo, penis, tears, lip gloss, fingers, strawberries, cherries, juice, smoothie, wine, pizza, cinnamon, celery, ice, meat sauce, seafood, aphrodisiacs.

Touch – Breasts, thighs, back, neck, nipples, eye lids, cheeks, lips, knees, fingertips, sheets, ice cubes, lotion, oil, vulva, vagina, penis, testicles, perineum, scrotum, anus, feathers, mittens, brush, comb, flogger, whip, handcuffs, pillows, blankets, towels, metal, cushions, lace, satin, sand, water, mouth, tongue, bubbles, belly button, hair.

Smell – Candles, sweat, perfume, ocean, autumn leaves, spring air, aloe, massage oil, incense, scented lubricant, body paint, hot chocolate, tea, coffee, baked goods, champagne, beer, wine, fresh sheets, lavender, cinnamon rolls, musk, forest, evergreens, mechanic grease, bacon, caramel, flowers, cut grass, shampoo, conditioner, lotion, body butter, hand cream, hairspray, candy, tobacco, cologne, spices, firewood, berries, citrus, suntan lotion, vanilla, breath, mint, cookies, lavender, orange blossom, jasmine, oregano, eucalyptus.

Sight – Hot bodies bumping, thrusting, muscles, stomach, bouncing breasts, plump ass, closed eyes, longing stares, lust, sweat dripping, hard penis, erect nipples, open mouth, open window, penetration, lubrication, arched back, mirror image, pornography, video, camera, clear skin, lingerie, blindfold, freckles, orgasmic expression, smile, ejaculation.

Now put your own erotic words into sentences that you know will turn your lover on and record yourself saying them in a slow, husky tone. Express your appreciation of your lover physically, sexually and emotionally and then leave a surprise CD under your lover’s pillow with a card that says, “Happy Audio Appreciation Month.”

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