Vacation Romances

Vacation romances are exciting because they can happen so fast that you go from flirting to fellatio, to falling in love in just a few days. But beware, as most vacation romances don’t last, so don’t profess your love prematurely to someone you just met.

The change of atmosphere adds to the romantic fairy tale, far away from the patterns of daily responsibilities. If your vacation is at a romantic destination with the sounds of waves crashing on the beach, warm tropical weather and you feel relaxed, happy and horny there’s a good chance you will be easily tempted to hook up with the first good prospect you meet. You can expect the highs to be very fulfilling, but the lows could come crashing down once you wake up sober or find yourself with an STD from having unprotected sex.

You can still have a great time on vacation, let loose and explore romantic opportunities, but set some boundaries for yourself so that you have no regrets. For example, go to first base on the first date, second base on the second date, third base on third date and a home run with protection on the fourth date. Or you can wait to make love until after the vacation to see if you still have the same chemistry. You’ll soon find out if the other person is genuinely interested in getting to know you or if he or she just wants to get laid. If they don’t ask you about your life, get uncomfortable talking about themselves or avoid sharing information about their family, friends and work, you may just want to remain platonic buddies.

Vacation romances can lead to falling in love and a lasting relationship with someone special if you are lucky, but be aware of the possible pitfalls. Enjoy your vacation and treat yourself as if you are madly in love with you, then you can’t get hurt.

Threesomes and New Relationship Energy

Have you ever thought about what it would be like to add another person to your relationship? Not just for sex, but to fill in a void and share your love to build an even stronger relationship. No couple can give each other everything they need for a mentally, emotionally, physically and sexually satisfying relationship. So, another alternative that some couples are exploring is to add a new person who can communicate, who will listen, be willing to compromise and have a sexual relationship with them. This is called New Relationship Energy (NRE) and is appealing to more couples who want to stay together, but frustrated by the restriction of monogamy.

If you want to be part of this movement, be sure to do your homework by educating yourself on different kinds of open relationships and discuss your intentions with your partner so that you are both on the same page. You want to address the pros and the cons of bringing in a new person, so making a list of the benefits and the consequences is a great way to begin.

Benefits of New Relationship Energy (NRE) may include:

1. Getting additional attention
2. Exploring bisexuality
3. Expanding horizons
4. Avoiding cheating
5. Satisfying a natural curiosity
6. Watching someone pleasure your partner
7. Learning to love in new ways
8. Diffusing dependency
9. Sharing relationship obligations
10. Learning new skills

The consequences of New Relationship Energy (NRE) may include:

1. Being judged by outsiders
2. Renegotiating the relationship
3. Feeling jealous
4. Being competitive
5. Sexual hang-ups
6. Unconventional lifestyle
7. Lack of acceptance
8. Fear of abandonment
9. Too much conflict
10. Lack of commitment

If you are interested in learning more about open relationships, check out this course on Polyamory.

• If You Want to Love More than One Person at the Same Time
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When are you Ready to have Sex?

  If you are thinking about having sex with someone, but not sure you’re ready, read these 10 signs before you give in to pressure. Knowing when you are ready for sex is a personal decision and a choice that you should make because you want to have sex.

You should be aware that the age of sexual consent differs around the world, so be sure to find out exactly what age is legal before you do anything you might regret. In the United States the age of consent ranges between 16 and 21. In the United Kingdom it’s 16 and it’s the same in India, but in Spain, the age of consent is only 13.  Check out the age of consent  to discover the legal age in your neck of the woods.

So, when do you know that you are ready to have sex? Here are my top 10 signs that you are ready to have sex:

1. When you know the reason why you want to have sex

2. When you understand your body

3. When you can control your emotions

4. When you can talk about sex before having sex

5. When you can talk about your feelings before and after having sex

6. When you know the other person’s sexual history

7. When you have FDA approved condoms on hand

8. When you know you won’t have any regret after having sex

9. When you know the difference between love, intimacy and sex

10. When having sex is a joint consensual agreement between adults.

Sex is a choice, which means that you can say, “NO”, “Not Now”, “Later” or “Yes”,  but when in doubt, do not have sex until you feel confident about the above 10 signs that you are ready, willing and able to have sex.

Secrets to Empowerment

AWAKEN YOUR EMPOWERMENT SO IT WILL BE AT YOUR FINGERTIPS WHEN YOU MOST WANT AND NEED IT WITH THESE 3 SECRETS.

SECRET #1 ROMANCE YOURSELF. TREAT YOURSELF AS IF YOU ARE MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU…EVERY DAY!

BEGIN BY IDENTIFYING WHAT MAKES YOU LOVABLE & GIVE YOURSELF ALL THE COMPLIMENTS YOU DESERVE.SO WHAT COMPLIMENT IS MOST MEANINGFULL TO YOU? IS IT A PHYSICAL, MENTAL, APPRECIATIVE OR SEXUAL COMPLIMENT? ALL OF THEM MAKE US FEEL GOOD, SO PRACTICE GIVING YOURSELF AT LEAST ONE OF EACH EVERY SINGLE DAY. TELL YOURSELF, “I’M HOT, SMART, KIND AND A GREAT LOVER.”

CELEBRATE YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS BIG AND SMALL BY REWARDING YOURSELF REGULARLY. WHAT DOES YOUR REWARD LOOK LIKE? IS IT LUNCH WITH A FRIEND, BUYING NEW CLOTHES, TAKING A NAP, WATCHING A MOVIE OR GIVING YOURSELF AN ORGASM?

TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN PLEASURE; DON’T WAIT FOR SOMEONE TO GIVE IT TO YOU. IF YOU WANT TO FEEL SENSUAL, DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET INTO A JUICY FRAME OF MIND. AWAKEN YOUR SENSES BY HEIGHTENING THEM WITH EROTIC TURN ONS, SUCH AS SCENTED CANDLES, WARM BATH, ROMANTIC MUSIC, A GLASS OF WINE OR SOME DELICIOUS DESERT.

ROMANCING YOURSELF ALSO MEANS FORGIVING YOURSELF, STOPPING NEGATIVE SELF-TALK AND FACING YOUR BIGGEST FEARS WITH UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.

SECRET #2 POSITIVE PEAK MEMORIES. TAP INTO YOUR MOST POSITIVE PEAK MEMORIES TO EXPERIENCE PLEASURE ANYTIME, ANY PLACE.

Close your eyes and recall a moment when you felt on top of the world. HOW ABOUT A BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION YOU HAD, A WEDDING, A BIRTH, A GRADUATION, GETTING A RAISE, A NEW CLIENT, OR A GREAT DATE.

This can have powerful results in reprogramming the subconscious mind and flooding your body with feel good endorphins, as your brain doesn’t know the difference between whether you are thinking or experiencing your positive peak moments.

Start saying YES to more positive peak moments and NO to people making demands on your valuable time, as it’s the most precious gift to give to yourself.

SECRET #3 PERCEPTION RECOGNITION. GET OTHERS TO PERCEIVE YOU THROUGH YOUR EYES. SO ASK YOURSELF, “HOW DO I WANT TO BE PERCEIVED BY MY PARTNER, MY FRIENDS, MY ASSOCIATES, EVEN MY COMPETITORS?

THINK OF 3 ADJECTIVES TO DESCRIBE HOW YOU WANT TO BE PERCEIVED. DO YOU WANT TO BE PERCEIVED AS PASSIONATE? POWERFUL? PLAYFUL? SMART? CREATIVE? SEDUCTIVE? FUNNY? POSITIVE? STRONG? OR OTHER?

YOU CAN IMPACT OTHERS TO PERCEIVE YOU THROUGH YOUR BODY LANGUAGE, YOUR FACIAL EXPRESSIONS, THE SOUND AND PROJECTION OF YOUR VOICE AND YOUR ACTIONS.

FACIAL EXPRESSIONS ARE UNIVERSAL AS EMOTIONS FOR HAPPINESS, SADNESS, ANGER, SURPRISE & FEAR.

BODY MOVEMENTS & POSTURE COMMUNICATES CONFIDENCE, INSECURITY, SEXINESS, INHIBITIONS, SELF-LOVE AND SELF-DOUBT.

GESTURES ARE EXPRESSIONS OF OUR EMOTIONS, SO BEWARE OF HOW YOU USE YOUR HANDS.

EYE CONTACT CAN COMMUNICATE INTEREST, ATTRACTION, SURPRISE, FEAR AND LOVE.

THE PROJECTION OF YOUR VOICE IS NOT JUST WHAT YOU SAY, BUT HOW YOU SAY IT WHICH CAN CONVEY UNDERSTANDING AND APPROVAL.

SO THE SECRETS TO EMPOWERMENT INCLUDE ROMANCING YOURSELF, TAPPING INTO YOUR POSITIVE PEAK MEMORIES AND PERCEIVING YOURSELF THE WAY YOU WANT OTHERS TO PERCEIVE YOU. TAKE CHARGE, EMPOWER YOURSELF AND BE 10 TIMES BOLDER IN YOUR LIFE SO THAT YOU HAVE NO REGRETS.

BE MORE PLAYFUL IN THE BEDROOM AND IF YOU NEED ANY IDEAS, GET MY NEW BOOK CALLED “THE SEXY LITTLE BOOK OF SEX GAMES” BY ALPHA/PENGUIN PUBLISHING TO INSPIRE YOU AT: http://is.gd/EVY16r

BY RELEASING THAT CONFIDENT, POWERFUL ENERGY FROM WITHIN, YOU WILL DO WONDERS FOR YOURSELF IN YOUR SOCIAL LIFE, YOUR CAREER, IN THE BEDROOM AND IN EVERY OTHER AREAS OF YOUR LIFE.

Passion Power for Women

I’m giving a seminar for women and having a book signing on Sunday, March 11 and I hope you can join me.
The event is called Pamper Me Fabulous and is located at the luxurious Vibiana in Downtown Los Angeles.
Below is all the information about this fun event.

Seminar Title:
Passion Power: The Art of Pleasure with Dr. Ava Cadell.
Seminar Location & Time:
Vibiana
214 South Main Street (Cross Street: 2nd)
Downtown Los Angeles, CA 90012
Sunday, March 11, 2011 @ 3:30PM

Seminar Description:
Unleash your feminine power through the art of pleasure to feel more confident, secure, strong, liberated and fulfilled in and out of the bedroom.

I will be signing my new book The Sexy Little Book of Sex Games following the seminar!
Books will be available for purchase and you get a FREE sex toy when you buy one.

I’m also having a FREE raffle and giving away a Certified Master Sexpert program to one lucky winner valued at $1000.00.

Spend a day with the girls and the things you love! Pamper Me Fabulous celebrates YOU on Sunday, March 11, 2012 at the stunning Vibiana in a full day of inspirational programming for mind, body, spirit. This ultimate Women’s Day Out from 11am-5pm features workouts, workshops, shopping, beauty, spa, health, and wellness bests, free flowing bubbly, desserts, a gift bag and uplifting energy.

Big personalities, motivational speakers, and industry professionals will speak on a variety of topics  and answer your questions – from self love to inspiration to beauty/spa – in Pamper Me Fabulous’ “The Expert Corner.”

In “The Activity Area,” you can choose to stretch, tone and workout in a variety of fitness classes, have some fun at the photo booths, take a taste-testing class, or take part in fun and engaging crafts!

And while in “The Bazaar” marketplace, be sure relax and grab lunch while hanging in the lounges, enjoy free flowing drinks and desserts, partake in retail therapy, and discover, purchase and sample the latest and greatest in spa treatments, beauty, fitness, fashion, health and wellness.

Of course the day will end sweetly, especially as you get a gift bag – with products you love from all of our fabulous sponsors and exhibitors so you can take home some of the pampering with you!